by Edith Wagner
There are many ways to pay for your reunion. Please share ways you pay for reunion expenses and I’ll share your unique ideas.
How on Earth Are We Going to Pay for this Reunion?
In How to Have a Successful Family Reunion, Elsie Holloman advises that the planning committee set up an account at a bank or credit union with two people required to sign for transactions. If you have a large number of people or an expensive reunion paid for in installments — a cruise, for instance — this is a must. Develop a detailed budget. Initial costs include mailings and long-distance phone calls. Include some serious discussion of reunion expenses in the very first letter.
Emma Wisdom in Planning a Family Reunion stresses the importance of keeping everyone informed about exactly what you’re “going to do with all that money.” She suggests requiring payment 90 days before the reunion so you have it to work with and you’ll know how many to expect. Wisdom’s other book, Family Reunion Organizer, suggests offering prizes to a number of the first people to send in registrations. Or, offer a discount to everyone who registers by a certain date. Doesn’t a discount for being early sound more attractive than a penalty for being late?
You’ll need to decide what kind of reunion you want in order to estimate costs. Will it be a pot luck picnic with everyone bringing their own meals or a portion of the meal to share? Will your family have a banquet catered at your church or a restaurant? Will you stay at a hotel or resort? How about a reunion on a cruise ship? These basic choices help you decide what you’ll need to pay for your reunion. And while we will provide extensive suggestions concerning reunion fundraising, we’re only scratching the surface. Successful fundraising is good reunion news. Help others enjoy their reunions by sharing your suggestions.
You’ll need to decide what kind of reunion you want in order to estimate costs.
Perhaps the most common ways that reunions are financed is by dividing all expenses equally, or having everyone pay individually for expenses they incur. With those possibilities at each extreme, let’s look at some other scenarios in between. The reunion should not cost more than any individual member can afford, or else provision must be made to cover the cost for everyone. Many reunions include fundraising activities which can be both lucrative and fun. I’ve always had the fantasy that someone might win the lottery and offer to use their largesse to pay for the family reunion — the interest alone would probably suffice! Other fantasies include convincing a wealthy relative to set up an endowment to sustain all future reunions, or winning a sweepstakes prize that awards reunions for your family in perpetuity. Okay, okay — you get the picture. Fantasy fundraising with an endowment is a little wild but has promise.
There are as many ways to pay as there are reunions and reunion groups. First, determine your potential reunion expenses, decide what you can trim to lower costs, then figure out how to pay for everything. Historically, reunions were picnics at a park or on a farm where games were planned and food donated by attendees. But many reunions now last at least three days and are either the family vacation or a significant part of it. And all reunions have some costs associated with them. The on-site projects such as raffles and auctions require advance planning including soliciting donations and contributions for the activity, recruiting auctioneers and encouraging purchases by family members. Make it fun and generate enthusiasm to give generously and often.
Fundraisers that require even more time to plan and execute are long-term projects such as soliciting corporate support, decorating and making quilts, collecting recipes and producing cookbooks and many other publishing projects such as directories, scrapbooks, and history books. Advance planning is also required for ordering personalized (imprinted) products such as t-shirts, caps, coffee mugs, pens, pencils…and many more items. Each reunion of the descendants of George Bullock, Sr. and his fourteen children with wives Sallie Jones and Fannie Anne Wooten, features souvenirs which incorporate a family crest designed by a then 16-year old Bullock family member, Renee Brown. Their souvenirs have run the gamut from t-shirts and caps to plaques, teddy bears wearing little sweaters with the Bullock crest, first aid kits, and umbrellas.
The most spontaneous (and for many families the best) way to raise funds is to pass the hat. To be successful, this method requires some members to be very generous; where but in families can you find true generosity and willingness to continue a great family tradition? Raising money can be as much or as little fun as you want to make it, but it can also be a drag. It is up to you to make it fun and to generate enthusiasm to give generously and often.
Reunion Souvenirs and Mementos
An endless variety of specialized products are available to commemorate your reunion. Unless the desire for t-shirts or mugs is overwhelming, research and discuss mementos thoroughly before signing on the dotted line. Catalogs abound with many possibilities and you’ll want to explore lots of them. Do you want frisbees? Visor caps? Key rings? Belt buckles? Sweatshirts? Stuffed mascots? Pens? Pencils? Note pads? Consult others who have ordered imprinted items. Listen to what they say. Don’t defy a poor recommendation — it almost never turns out well! In the case of items that require sizes (t-shirts, sweatshirts, caps) you’ll have several ways to order. If you’re including the cost of t-shirts in registration, you’ll need to know everyone’s sizes and to do that you’ll need to send order forms at least six months before your reunion (because you’ll want to allow at least two months for the company to fulfill your order). Or you can guess the number in your family who will buy shirts, then guess the sizes and hope you’ll sell them all. Or you can ask everyone who wants an item to order and pay in advance by a firm deadline after which nothing can be ordered (although you’d be wise to front the money to buy a few extras for people who didn’t order when they had the chance).
Avoid disappointment by allowing plenty of time for delivery of imprinted items. Some companies demand payment up front. Others accept orders payable by invoice. But nothing is worse than having an order that doesn’t arrive in time. All companies claim quick delivery. With advance notice the company can fill your order properly. Think about your order. Save money by omitting the year or other nonessential information on personalized items. You may have supplies left for the future.
Phyllis Hackleman in Reunion Planner suggests some questions to ask when ordering souvenirs:
- Are there charges to screen artwork?
- Are there extra charges for more than one color?
- Will the manufacturer guarantee colors? Does it cost extra?
- Who pays shipping charges? How much are they?
- Who pays UPS repacking charges, if incurred?
- Will the manufacturer share a proof before production to verify that it is the product you want?
- Will you be obligated to pay for an overrun of more than the exact number you order?
Learn from Class Reunions
Linda Johnson Hoffman and Neal Barnett in The Reunion Planner suggest raffles to make up budget shortfalls. Solicit donations from a fine restaurant or theater for dinners or tickets for two. You can buy rolls of raffle tickets from stationery and office supply stores, and you can offer a mention in your memory book/program in exchange for donations from your sponsors. The mechanics are relatively simple. Sell tickets before and during the reunion; then when you announce the winner, be sure to prominently mention the names of donors. The same book suggests raffling or auctioning centerpieces. Another kind of raffle calls for placing numbered envelopes at each table (same numbers at each table). Ask everyone to place donations in numbered envelopes, then draw one for a winner at each table and donate the rest to the reunion cause.
In How to Organize Your High School Reunion, Glenn A. Jacobs maintains that some costs can be covered by asking for additional donations either in cash or services. An extra financial commitment can come as printing invitations, programs, memory books or newsletters, flowers, decorations, food, beverages, advertising, or newspaper notices. Another way to raise money is to obtain a one-day liquor license for an open bar. In planning an open bar be sure someone agrees in advance to buy leftover liquor.
Does Reunion Money Grow on Trees?
Try variations of food and beverage and white elephant sales. Food sales can net a nice profit if you consider carefully your reunion customers. A bake sale could feature desserts to eat right there as well as whole bakery specialties to take home. Ask donors to include the recipe with donated goodies. An ice cream social (or sundae social with an ample buffet of delectable toppings) can be the centerpiece for reunion socializing and turn a profit at the same time. The 300 to 600 people who attend the annual Seidemann Family Reunion near Newburg, Wisconsin, each year do not pay a fee. The reunion is financed by food, beer, and soft drink sales. Family members take turns working in the sandwich, ice cream or beverage stands or grilling bratwurst and hamburgers. Donations are always welcome.
Food sales can net a nice profit if you carefully consider your reunion customers. Auctions or raffles are a theme for which there are dozens of variations. Many reunion groups solicit items their auctions by advertising in advance communications to membership. Later notices to promote the auction include a list of items donated — which serves as an incentive for others to donate. Encourage donations of artwork, crafts, home preserves, baked goods, etc. The great cooks in the group could offer to cook a meal for the purchaser. Members who own businesses can donate professional services or products. In the case of raffles, it is wise to check local and state regulations, if any, which may apply. Encourage donations of specialized local products if your reunion draws from a wide geographic area. For example, note cards, prints, calendars or books about your home area; regional foods — Vermont maple syrup, Cajun spice blends, California or New York wines, or Wisconsin cheese; area products — Navajo jewelry, native crafts; CDs of local folk music.
The Family Reunion Organizer, by Emma Wisdom, suggests raffling a family heirloom, a rare portrait or handmade quilt. Some groups have asked each individual or family to bring a quilt square of a specified size. When these are made into a quilt, the result is a unique treasure to auction or raffle the next year. The Lounsbury family of New York auctions larger items and operates a craft sale table for smaller things. The Braunschweig family of Wisconsin usually makes enough on its auction to pay for the reunion. Members often bid generously on handmade items by family members.